Wednesday, November 19, 2008

An open letter

** To my SITStas who may be visiting for the "SITSmas day" I am sorry for the bad link - my SITSmas post is here


Dear man that stole my wallet,

I am sure you remember that call that brought you to me… it would have sounded something like, “Ms. Robinson at 600 Fullum heading to 10 Sherbrooke”. You were probably thinking, “great another boring professional to drive to her hotel” but you decided to take the run anyway, didn’t you?

When I got in I hadn’t noticed that you really did not like your job, I mean you made it a real chore to even ask/confirm where I needed to go. While sitting in the back seat looking out the window I hadn’t noticed that you were constantly looking back at me and creeping me out… nope hadn’t noticed. When you stopped at the red light just beside my building I knew that it was time for me to get out… so I kindly paid and tipped you and stepped out of your cab, do you remember that? It was at that moment that I realized that I had left me wallet in your car and rather than stopping when I waved you down you thought that it would be kind to smile and wave back – yeah, that was an original way to say, “Say goodbye to your $400 and all your personal information lady because you are not getting it back!”

I wonder if you care that I called the cab company and it took them one hour of trying to get through to your car because you were on the phone, probably calling all your friends and family to tell them about the great tip you had received that day. And I wonder if you care that I called the police and they told me that you would not be bringing back my wallet? And I wonder if you know that despite all of that I believed in you, believed that perhaps you were a good person and would return the wallet to me? I also wonder if you knew that I intended on giving you the money just to have my personal information and cards back?

I know that you couldn’t have known that this blonde was smarter than I look (clearly) because I reported all my cards stolen. I know that you couldn’t have known this because you used them! Surely nobody could be so bold, so mean and unfair…

The reason that I am writing you this letter today is because I want you to know that I am going to pray for you. I pray that your children do not follow in your footsteps. I pray that you will find peace in your mind knowing that you have stolen from an innocent lady and lied about it. I pray that you find joy in your job so you make people feel comfortable in your presence rather than fearful. I pray that your conscious tells you to mail my wallet back to me because you notice that I have children and would benefit from having their medicare cards returned. I pray that you are able to provide your family a nice Christmas with the “found” money and not spend it foolishly.

Praying for you,

The owner of that red wallet in your hands

34 comments:

greedygrace said...

Yikes! Yes, I will pray for him, too...

kjamama said...

I can't believe that happened! I love your writing though, I have really enjoyed reading your blog! I hope you already haven't won (because your writing is amazing) but I want to pass it along to you! Come to my blog :)

Jen said...

my first comment did not work for some reason but I came back to write it again. b/c we all need some comment love!

That totally sucks! What a rotten situation. I mean if someone told me there were going to take my purse, I would be like here, I'll give you the cash and the bag just let me keep the other stuff.

TMI said...

Thank you for this perspective of forgiveness and love. I recently learned this similar lesson at a funeral of my friend's husband. He was shot by two young men so they could have his car to get to a party. Not only did the family openly forgive the young men, but begged everyone to pray for them and their families as they dealt with the consequences of their decisions. I was so moved by this amazing act of charity and pure love. But then I realized very shortly that putting this concept into action if/when I am wronged will be much different than just learning about it at a funeral or here on your blog. I cross my fingers that I can be so brave and humble as you have been. Thank you!

Veggie Mom said...

Geez...I had my pocketbook stolen a couple of years ago, and it's Just No Fun! Hey there! I'm visiting from SITS. Gotta Great Giveaway Goin' over at My Place. Please stop by when ya can!

Midwest Mommy said...

Oh no! Some people in this world need a heck of a lot of praying...so sad.

Cindy said...

Nice blog...I'll add you to my roll...here through sits and have screwed up the whole d
"dear..." open letter thing...I'm clueless! HELP!!

{Ashley B} said...

good grief! i don't know that i could be as forgiving as you in this situation. i would hope so however.
love this post!

mannequin said...

Comin from SITS...
So sad that money can make people do things so wrong. Sad, like you say that quite possibly the man has children that have him for an example.
AT least he could have returned the cards. What a jerk.


Aside from that, it's a very nice blog you have here. I've enjoyed my visit!

Bar-b said...

I cannot believe that you could not get help from the police or the persons employer. You were basically telling them who stoled it. Crazy. Infuriating. Violating.

Not a big deal in the grand scheme, but surely irritating.

Over from sits...plan to hang out a whole if that's ok ;)

Noah's Mommy said...

Oh goodness...I'm so sorry....and Karma will come back...it is big of you to pray for him...it would be hard for me...lord I'm the type that would have gone to the cab company and punched his lights out....(not really, but it sounds good)

Tiffany said...

I am so sorry this happened.

Pink Ink said...

I am sorry!! But that's a great attitude on your part.

Peace. :-)

Nina said...

Sorry about your wallet.

Merry SITSmas....

TimsMomMom said...

Ok, so that totally sucks, hopefully writing about it and sharing it with people who care and think it stinks helps to alleviate a little bit of the pain. Hope the rest of the holidays are better for you and yours.

Kimmy said...

WOW! Isn't it amazing how people can be so mean. I too had my wallet stolen from me.
Hope all the prayers will get that man to return your wallet to you with all the stuff in it.

jsprik said...

so sorry to hear this happened to you! hugs and prayers...

Natalie said...

He used it!!!???????

I am floored.

Wow.

Merry SiTSmas...geeez.

Vic said...

The nerve... I can't believe people anymore they are so ridiculous. I am going to be praying for him as well. I love your writing and hope to come back soon. Merry SITSmas!

Annie said...

So sorry!!

Merry SITSmas to you!

Eudea-Mamia said...

People like you give me hope that the world won't be filled with people like him.

And if your praying doesn't help him, I'm pretty sure Karma is going to pay a visit.

Eudea-Mamia said...

People like you give me hope that the world won't be filled with people
like him.

And if your praying doesn't help him, I'm pretty sure Karma is going to.

Rhiana said...

ohhh, how sad! I'm so sorry, for both you and that man with a mean mean heart.

Nicole said...

Doesn't it just make you angryI lost my wallet last week and I couldn't believe that someone actually turned it in and i got it back. I was amazed. How sad that I was just planning on never getting it back!!! Merry SITSmas anyway. Just remember Karma.

ScrappinAway said...

I'm confused as to why the police couldn't do anything since you knew what cab and company? Sorry it happened though! I hope you win some goodies today and Merry SITSmas. I am having a giveaway on my blog as well if you are interested!

Michele said...

Oh, my! Great post! I love it!

tam said...

That is horrible-I am so sorry that happened to you!
And I came to wish You a happy SITSmas! I hope at least you get to win something today in the contest!
~Tam :)

Lynn said...

Great post... and a viewpoint that would have been hard to come by in this situation... thanks for the lesson in prayer!

Meg said...

Wishing you a wonderful holiday season!

Merry SITSmas!

Amanda said...

Wow, some people have horrible morals!
Merry SITSmas!

Tori said...

Wow...how awful. Thank you for your inspiring attitude. So I'm thinking about joining the SITS thing. What do you think of it? Is it much of a commitment? If you're to busy to get back to me thats fine.

Beautiful blog! Keep writing!

Lori said...

Merry SITSmas!! :)

Jeanne said...

Smart lady! You've figured out that we forgive people, not for them, but to free ourselves from hauling around all that anger.

And while being lighthearted is a good thing, I hope you are able to recover all your info without too much time and grief.

Great blog-story!

Breanna and Dave said...

WOW i cant believe he used it!?! Its a sad workd out there.

I hope you get your things back.